Oh my. Where to start. You have a DC that is *directly* connected to a DSL modem without a hardware firewall? You want to use ICS?
I would HIGHLY recommend you rethink that idea. Anything would be better, even a SOHO router like a Linksys BEFSR81 (8 port switch with routing/NAT).
If you insist on trying to use your existing hardware, you should really look into installing ISA Server 2004 on that server.
I would never, never, never recommend a "live" DC ever be connected directly to the internet without a router/firewall/packet filter before it.